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Size is wrapped up in enough cultural weight - masculinity, performance, comparison - that raising it can feel like admitting insecurity. But research consistently shows partners report far more satisfaction with size than men assume, and place more weight on communication and connection. See Does Size Matter to a Partner?
If your driver is your own confidence rather than anything your partner has expressed, frame the conversation that way - as something about how you feel, not fishing for reassurance about a problem your partner may not perceive.
The most direct path is usually just asking - openly, without assuming the answer. Many men are surprised by how little weight partners place on this compared to other aspects of intimacy.
Deciding whether to share that you're exploring natural methods or exercises is personal - there's no obligation to disclose, but many men find being open removes pressure and avoids a partner misreading behavior changes.
Persistent anxiety about size can affect intimacy more noticeably than the underlying anatomy does - see Small Penis Anxiety & Body Image. Sometimes the most useful outcome of this conversation isn't a physical method at all, but addressing the anxiety directly.
What if my partner says size does matter to them?
Valid information specific to your relationship, even if it doesn't match broader research averages - a starting point for further conversation.
Should I mention this to a new partner early on?
No universal rule - many men wait unless it becomes relevant, others find mentioning it directly eases their own anxiety.
Is it normal to feel embarrassed bringing this up at all?
Very common - most partners respond better to direct, calm conversation than the anxiety leading up to it would suggest.
An honest, judgment-free conversation before any harder ones.